Tomorrow is the setup day for Gradshow, and Zee is helping me, since I won't be in Singapore yet. THANK YOU ZEE!!! Appreciate it a lot. Really.
So.. I'm doing online consultation with Bel, but I think she's busy. She hasn't replied my last email, and there's no more time so I'll just send the file for printing to Zee now.
And guess what. The internet connection decided to turn sour just at this moment. It took ages to open even Twitter. What's with that?? Oh speed up please..
*It suddenly sped up at this point. Whoa*
So now I'm uploading my files.
Yap.
I'll be back in Singapore an a few days. And I won't be meeting Ghon cos she'll be going back. For TWO months :( I really don't like the idea of being in Singapore without her.
But! My parents will be coming over soon after, so that will make up for that :)
So.. I toldja I'll be talking about 'change' right? Here are one of the many things that has changed here.
2 of my close male friends are having their own ladies!
I do think I can make friends with guys better then girls. It's less awkward talking to guys on a first meeting than with a girl. With exceptions towards the handsome ones (I'll avoid eye contact). Doesn't mean my guy friends are ugly, no no no. It just takes more time.
Of all the guy friends I have, some are very close to my heart, and I care of dearly. This 2 included. I'll keep the name a secret, will just call them Q and X.
Q has been a friend of mine for so long. What, 5 years? In those 5 years, he has had a few girlfriends. So I guess I am used to the idea of him having a lady. In fact, both of these exhibits had a few girlfriends throughout the whole course of our friendship.
When he told me about this girl, he was SUPER excited. Like, SUPER. He can explode at any minute there. She swept him off his feet. He told me she was funny, cute, unpredictable, and they had that chemistry :) And I do sincerely feel happy for him.
Do I feel like I'll lose him? Surprisingly no. For the both of them. Maybe because I stay in Singapore and we don't meet very often so it doesn't make much of a difference. Well, can't ask him for a ride now (teehee), now that they're official. CONGRATULATIONS! *blows trumpet*
I appreciate the fact that he introduced the both of us. He's proud of her so that's really good :)
Exhibit X has also been a friend of mine for 5 years. I pretty much know his love journey. Well, maybe not all in detail, but pretty much the big picture.
One thing about him. When you ask guys a "so how are you and her?" kind of question, they usually give you a very brief answer. Not him. He remembers things in detail, and he's smart. He has liked a few girls, and when he tells his story, it's always in a accurately detailed way. Days, dates, time, location.. Amazing.
He tought me things like maintaining eye contact. Not to shy away when making eye contact with a guy (which is something I really need to work on badly), and how guy thinks (some guys dates a few girls to find out which one suits him best, and then pursue her. Which some girls would find offensive. Including me, really, cos most of us females are such emotional beings, and that method of selecting can be hurtful when the girl actually falls for you. And yes, I have experienced it and it really hurts. But as his friend, I say you go boy!)
And then there's this young girl that passes his selection process, and now he's head over heels for her. Like, it's intense. I can see that he really cares for her, and I know he's a faithful guy. They're not official yet, but I hope the best for them! Haven't met the girl by the way.
To my friends who are in love. Enjoy the feeling buddies. And if I may, involve Jesus in your relationship. Both of you human beings are imperfect, therefore you need Someone perfect in there to hold you together! He loves both of you more then both of you love yourselves and each other. He knows you best, what you like and dislike, and He is personal as much as He is able to unite both of you. Tell Him what you want. Make Him the Middle Man in times you can't communicate with each other. Treat Him like He's alive, because He is and He loves to be involved in His children's love adventure :) It'll be fun! And He's almighty and He is able to make things work for your good and in your favor. Parents permission, financial problems, dating sites, even parking spots! He cares :)
So there you go. See you!
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